Send a Card to Your Birth Mom

These digital cards are a simple way for adoptive families to share updates with their child’s birth family—birthdays, milestones, and little moments in between. Instead of wondering what to say or when to reach out, the card gently guides you with thoughtful questions, making it easier to share meaningful updates with love and intention. They help birth moms feel remembered, included, and reassured that they are still an important part of the story—without the pressure of constant communication.

  • Goodbye to Not Knowing What To Say

    Staring at a blank email trying to summarize a whole year for your birthmom is paralyzing. Our guided prompts do the heavy lifting so you can stop overthinking and start clicking.

  • The 'Oops, I Forgot" Insurance

    We know your brain is 90% snacks and schedules. Our gentle monthly nudges make sure you never have to send that awkward "Sorry this is three months late" email to your birthmom ever again.

  • Their Voice, Not Yours

    Stop guessing what to share with your birthmom. Our age-appropriate cards let your child’s actual personality shine through. From their "favorite stuffed animal" at age 3 to their "dream job" at age 16, you are sharing their authentic voice and not just another parent report.

How It Works

  1. Pick a Digital Card that you want to send to your Birth mom or Birth family: Choose from 35+ designs (Holidays, Birthdays, or Send an Update).
  2. Add Your Memories: Fill in our guided prompts and upload your favorite photos.
  3. Automatic Delivery Simply enter the email of the birth family or your agency. Your completed card and photos will go to their inbox, beautifully formatted.


What You Get....

$29.99/year

  • Unlimited Access to the full card library
  • Send as many cards as you like, anytime
  • Automated email delivery + photo uploads
  • Monthly reminders for every milestone
  • Secure, private parent portal
  • Cancel anytime
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Digital Cards That Connect - Adoptive Families Plan

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More Info

I’ve been where you are.

  • Hi, I’m Annie. As an adoptive mom, I know that "open adoption" sounds beautiful in theory, but in reality? It can be a lot to manage between soccer practice and laundry.

    I used to have all these great intentions to send updates, but then life happened. I wanted my child’s birth family to truly know them—not just see a random photo once a year, but hear their funny quotes, their favorite foods, and see their personality grow.

  • I created Cards that Connect because I needed a bridge. I wanted a way to honor our birth moms that didn't feel like a stressful chore, but like a shared celebration.

    Now, instead of staring at a blank email wondering what to say, I have a library of prompts that help me and my child share our lives in minutes. It’s been a game-changer for our relationship, and I’m so honored to share it with your family, too.

💛 If you’re curious how this works, try sending one card first.

Create a free login and fill out your first digital card.

No payment. No commitment. Just a simple way to share an update and see how it feels.

It only takes a few minutes — but it can mean so much.

Create my free account & send a card

Common Questions

Q: How do I use the cards?

A: Once you log in, you can choose a card, fill it out, and hit submit. It’s automatically sent to your child’s birth family—quick, secure, and meaningful.

Q: What if I don’t know the birth parent’s email?

A: No problem! You can send the card to your adoption professional or agency, and they can forward it to the birth family.

Q: Can I include photos or personal touches?

A: Absolutely! Each card allows you to upload photos and add your own message. The prompts also help you know exactly what to say, so nothing feels awkward.

Q: How many cards can I send?

A: As many as you want! There’s no limit—send updates whenever you like.

Q: Will I get reminders?

A: Yes! You’ll get gentle email reminders for birthdays and holidays so you don’t miss important moments.

Q: Can I cancel anytime?

A: Yes! You can cancel your subscription at any time—no hassle.

Designed with respect for birth families and deep love for adoptive parents. We’re here to help you honor the whole story.

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